What do I(23F) tell him(33M)to stop spending money on me without offending him?

2022.01.20 07:48 prettyneurdy What do I(23F) tell him(33M)to stop spending money on me without offending him?

I’m seeing someone who’s quite wealthy. Every time we go out he impulsively buys things that I was only looking at and buys me stuff because a. I wasn’t feeling good, etc. The list will go on when I continue seeing him. I do appreciate them and he’s told me it’s in his nature to do those kinds of things. But it was really unnecessary and I’m not used to getting treated like this.
I try to offer my part by getting him small things such as getting him coffee or offering to pay for other things which he will never allow me to do.
He’s such a sweet, kind and loving man. Tall and good looking too. I want to continue seeing him but without offending him or allowing him to be himself without also making me feel uncomfortable.
Im a recent graduate/work part time + side hustles and he’s a tech entrepreneur + doesn’t work anymore but on other ventures. I haven’t noticed any red flags so far, he’s too perfect and we get along great and I don’t want to ruin things between us. I also feel bad because I’m emotionally unavailable due to a previous toxic relationship and he listens/cares for me as well.
PS. I’ve told him to not get my unnecessary gifts but he does other things that I don’t want him to do.
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2022.01.20 07:48 zendahlia-designs Landlord Keeping Money when I have Vacated Room - Do I have any legal rights?

This may be a bit lengthy so please bear with...
Basically, I moved into a room in a shared house by paying my landlord 4 months rent up front as I was coming back from a time away working on a farm & didn't as yet have a job here.
The room I moved into was a very cold, very noisy room due to the single glazed windows & it being on the corner of an intersection of three different lanes of traffic. I have a sensory disorder that makes this incredibly hard for me & it became clear to me after one night that I could not remain there for the sake of my sanity.
I moved in on the 16/12/21 & by the 18th I had requested an in person meeting so that I didn't waste anyone's time in getting out & my landlord could find a new tenant. At this meeting my landlord (who is now denying this) said to me to just give him 2 weeks notice when i was to move & he would give me ALL of my remaining rent back that I had paid upfront.
I was out by the 16th of Jan, I informed him of this on the 29th of December, there is text evidence of him agreeing to this being okay, however as soon as I moved all of my stuff out, he is claiming it is unreasonable for me to expect my final months rent back (he already returned 2 of the 3 months rent)
SO, in conclusion he is now keeping £450 of my money for an empty room. As we both agreed to break my contract & due to the text evidence agreeing to my moving out dated as 29/12/21, I believe I should be atleast entitled to my money from the 29th of January (this being the standard months notice) to the 16th of February which is when he is holding me to as being my move out date.
I am not using any of the services he is keeping my money for. As I am paying the rental on the room still, I am assuming if he rents it out he will be breaching tenancy law? If all I can do is prevent him getting his mitts on someone elses money for the same period that will have to do but I surely must be able to get something back?
His constant downplaying of my neurological condition as being merely "bothered by road noise" after me explaining what I suffer from has also been quite annoying & possible grounds for discrimination if he keeps my money? I don't know so please, people of reddit, am I just going to have to swallow this or do I have some legal argument?
Thanks to anyone that takes the time to read & advise
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2022.01.20 07:48 Round_Ad8783 Does age really matter? 41M and 25F

We talk so well together. He understands me, accepts me as who I am and handles all my craziness. He usually says he likes spending time with me and talking to me. ‘I miss hanging out with you like this.’ ‘I don’t wanna go back, I wanna hang out with you.’ ‘What did I do to have met you?’ ‘I’m glad I’ve found you’ He says he likes hanging out with me but never clearly says that he likes me.
I used to ask him what we are and he would say just friends. Recently, he sighed and questioned himself that while we were hanging out and I said ‘just friends like you said’. And he said it’s more than friends. I asked what it is then, he said it has no name.
He asked why I would wanna be with him. He said ‘you have great body and good personality, why would you wanna be with me when you can have anyone out there?’ I said ‘not anyone out there, and not everyone can get along well and communicate well together.’
He said ‘what would your family say? I’m almost twice your age.’ I said ‘does it matter?’
I told him to take time to think and give me a definition of what we are. We can stay friends if that’s what he wants, otherwise let me know but I won’t be waiting around, I just don’t want it to be as confusing. He asked what I want and I told him that it’s whatever he wants, if he wants friendship, I’m good with that and promise to stay around as friends. All I wanna know is where I stand.
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